Cursed Be Anyone Who Dishonors His Father1
2 Samuel 18:1; 5-18
Hushai returned to the city and offered his service to Absalom as David asked him to do. “Now in those days the counsel that Ahithophel gave was as if one consulted the word of God; so was all the counsel of Ahithophel esteemed.”2 Absalom listened to the counsel of both Ahithophel and Hushai, but he took Hushai’s advice, because “the LORD had ordained to defeat the good counsel of Ahithophel, so that the LORD might bring harm upon Absalom.”3 “When Ahithophel saw that his counsel was not followed, he…hanged himself, and he died.”4 Absalom gathered a great army and pursued his father. The battle that followed decided who would be king in Israel.
1Then David mustered the men who were with him and set over them commanders of thousands and commanders of hundreds. (But when all the troops were counted, David did not have even half as many as his rebellious son.)
5And the king ordered Joab and Abishai and Ittai, “Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom.” And all the people heard when the king gave orders to all the commanders about Absalom. (The order to be gentle with his son showed that David expected to win the battle, but hoped Absalom would not be killed in it. This is a picture of that gracious King, who, even while his persecutors were scorning and killing him, prayed, “Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.”5)
6So the army went out into the field against Israel, and the battle was fought in the forest of Ephraim. 7And the men of Israel were defeated there by the servants of David, and the loss there was great on that day, twenty thousand men. 8The battle spread over the face of all the country, and the forest devoured more people that day than the sword.
9And Absalom happened to meet the servants of David. Absalom was riding on his mule, and the mule went under the thick branches of a great oak, and his head caught fast in the oak, and he was suspended between heaven and earth, while the mule that was under him went on.
The very trees of the forest are lined up against the ungodly. Absalom had made his hair his pride and it became his downfall. People are often defeated by the very things they idolize. What must have been the thoughts of this underhanded young prince when he found himself caught in the forked branch of the oak tree and suspended between heaven and earth to die the death of the accursed? Let children beware of not appreciating their parents. It is a sin that especially earns the anger of the Most High God.
10And a certain man saw it and told Joab, “Behold, I saw Absalom hanging in an oak.” 11Joab said to the man who told him, “What, you saw him! Why then did you not strike him there to the ground? I would have been glad to give you ten pieces of silver and a belt.” 12But the man said to Joab, “Even if I felt in my hand the weight of a thousand pieces of silver, I would not reach out my hand against the king’s son, for in our hearing the king commanded you and Abishai and Ittai, ‘For my sake protect the young man Absalom.’ 13On the other hand, if I had dealt treacherously against his life (and there is nothing hidden from the king), then you yourself would have stood aloof.” 14Joab said, “I will not waste time like this with you.” And he took three javelins in his hand and thrust them into the heart of Absalom while he was still alive in the oak. 15And ten young men, Joab’s armor-bearers, surrounded Absalom and struck him and killed him.
16Then Joab blew the trumpet, and the troops came back from pursuing Israel, for Joab restrained them. 17And they took Absalom and threw him into a great pit in the forest and raised over him a very great heap of stones. And all Israel fled every one to his own home.
An old writer says, “One death was not enough for Absalom. He was at once hanged, shot, mangled and stoned. Justly was he lifted up by the oak, for he had lifted himself against his father and sovereign. Justly was he pierced with arrows, for he had pierced his father’s heart with many sorrows. Justly was he mangled, for he had dismembered and divided all Israel. And, justly was he stoned, for he had not only cursed, but pursued his own parent.”6
18Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and set up for himself the pillar that is in the King’s Valley, for he said, “I have no son to keep my name in remembrance.” He called the pillar after his own name, and it is called Absalom’s monument to this day.
Absalom’s pillar is still pointed out to travelers, but its only purpose is to immortalize the shame of this unprincipled son. Children! Love and obey your parents, so you will not fall into Absalom’s sin and destruction.
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1 Deuteronomy 27:16
2 2 Samuel 16:23
3 2 Samuel 17:14
4 2 Samuel 17:23
5 Luke 23:34
6 Bishop Joseph Hall (1574-1656).